NYC Gay Dating and Relationship Success for 39 Years!

ManMate is the largest personalized gay dating service for men in New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut

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In 1985, ManMate became revolutionary as the first personalized gay dating service in America.  Since then, we have personally met, matched and introduced many thousands of attractive, single, and successful men who desire a relationship and are open to making new friends in the process. ManMate is a distinct alternative to hasty and frustrating encounters from apps, clubs, bars, and online "dating" sites. Just as you benefit from the services of specialists in other areas of your life, ManMate's matchmaking experts assist you in your personal search for a lasting relationship with an exceptional gay man. 

“We bought a house, we have a wonderful dog and a wildly happy life. Thank you so much for helping us find each other.”

—Craig P. and Mark S.

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